For many women, there is no debate over having children - they know from a young age they want a family and never dither on it.
However, others aren't so lucky. Dozens of women have taken to secret-sharing site Whisper to confess that they've changed their mind and no longer want to have a baby.
To the reasons why they've decided to remain childless, and how it's affecting their lives and marriages, these confessions may make some people think twice about starting a family ...